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An amazing reference to what we used to call “bullshit detecting” years ago. This is so on-point and a welcomed read for anyone navigating life these days! Bullshit is everywhere coming from all directions, at times.

In my current business role, I am a full time bullshit detector… my boss and the owner of the business lies constantly and makes gaslighting an art form! But, last week, I ran into an even better example of this “bs-approach” with a gentleman who believed he had the answers for everything despite his lack of data.

We were having a “business meeting,” although I still don’t know why he was even in the room, and every time he spoke, he would announce and explain why he was speaking. It went something like this, “I am going to explain something that is simple but seems complex but I think it’s important to say in this group. I’m not going to tell you how to run your clinic but…” This is the “profundity” tactic you mentioned!!

Like, what I have to say is so profound, I need to introduce it to you before I say it. My response? “If you wouldn’t mind getting to the point, I have another meeting at 5pm.” Then, the question any bullshitter hates… “thank you for sharing your opinion, do you have some outcomes data to support that?”

Man, that really pisses them off! How dare I ask for proof!! Mind you, I’m not asking for them to prove themselves, I’m asking for the data of the “assumption” so that I can make the most informed decision for this healthcare business!

I ask for data so often (because assumptions are CONSTANTLY being thrown my way to get what they want), that the owner has developed a manipulation tactic of shouting out, “that’s data” when she’s expressing an assumption to me. 🤣😂. I’ve gently reminded her, “announcing that something is data, doesn’t make it so.”

The bullshitting is next level, these days!

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